Babies first or career first?

[tacko]

Let me start this topic on Singapore Motherhood discussion.

We just got married and just got our HDB Flat, wondering if we should have a baby next or focus on our career first.

Feel free to share your thoughts, Singapore mothers and career women.

I am sure others like me out there are also wondering what next after getting our HDB flat.

Thanks in advance.

[meredith84]

I think it's depend on you and your wife. For me I'd like to have a baby because before I was getting married I've to make sure that my career was settled, my financial was steady already, something like that..

[Gregdill]

I think career must be first and then start a family.
Although It will be different for every person.!!

[aircon]

Career should start first then family.

[zav]

Career first then baby.. No $ cannot support baby...

[tommy]

Career first. We need to be prepare to support the family and the additional member.

[tacko]

Hey, this is my question I posted last time.

Didn't Lee Kuan Yew says babies first?

I agreed, hee hee.

[Homefellas]

Hi..
many many thanks for share your experience..

[newlaunchsingapore]

can't it be both together? what is babies without career? what is career without babies? :)

baby and family is always a source of motivation when it comes to work...

[Jackson77]

can't it be both together? what is babies without career? what is career without babies? :)

baby and family is always a source of motivation when it comes to work...

Work is very important, but I think that the families a few more important, no home and other why!

[Jackson77]

Work is very important, but I think that the families a few more important, no home and other why!

Any a mother, I would disagree with the idea of?